Books of 2021 (What I’m Reading)

For my books of 2021, I have a few planned but often just pick up a book to read as the mood suits me. Certain moods require certain types of books (if you know, you know).

Anyways… I track all of my books so it seems obvious to share what I’m currently reading, what I’d recommend and thoughts on what books you should add to your “to read” list.

I used to read in the car often while waiting on Greyson at swim team but, as he has gotten older, we have started to drop him off and not wait as long in the car. It’s interesting to find different rhythms for this hobby (which reading for me definitely is).

If you are struggling to find reading time but want to, my advice is to find a ten minute pocket of time that works for you daily and just start reading. From there, as you get more into books and reading in general, you can make the choice whether to pick up your phone (let’s be honest, this is a common way that we all waste time) or pick up your book.

For me, personally, I read in the mornings. I’m an early riser so I tend to get about thirty minutes of reading in each morning first thing as I’m drinking coffee. From there, I might read for 15 min or so during the day (lunch hour or while I’m getting a cup of tea). It’s 50/50 on whether I take a book with me now and read while I’m doing the whole carpool waiting game. Sometimes, I just listen to a podcast and other times, I read. Then, most nights, I’ll read again for fifteen minutes or so.

I don’t sit for hours and hours, except for occasionally on a weekend when I’m wrapped up in a book. But, I’m able to finish books because I reach for them daily.

Anyways, hope that helps! I often hear from people that they just don’t know where I find the time so I thought it’d be helpful to share.

Books of 2021

What I read in April

1. The Lines We Leave Behind by Eliza Graham (4 Stars): For some reason, this was a slower read for me but took me on a journey of feelings and thoughts. The book follows a young woman and her life as she finds love, risks her life during wartime, commits a serious crime and is admitted to an insane asylum (all in the 1940s). There were quite a few minor and major characters but I thought they were all really well done.
2. Girl in Translation by Jean Kwok (5 Stars): I was so caught up in this story. A young girl immigrates to the U.S. with her mother and the story follows her as she struggles to fit in at school, work in a factory at night and find the American dream.
3. Rules of Civility by Amor Towels (4 Stars): I’m torn on my review of this book. Honestly, it’s probably a 3.5, if that was an option. Parts of it, I LOVED and parts were too descriptive. The main character, Katey, I loved. Being a single woman in Manhattan in the 1930s and just living her life was fun to witness. The overall storyline was great in some areas and less than stellar in others but overall, I enjoyed it.
4. Wake Up Grateful: The Transformative Practice of Taking Nothing for Granted by Kristi Nelson (1 Star): This book was part memoir and part self-help but neither part was very good.
5. The Lying Game by Ruth Ware (3 Stars): This was a very slow thriller (is that a thing?). I was intrigued by the storyline throughout but wasn’t engaged until the last fifty pages or so. It follows a group of girls and their relationship at boarding school. At some point, the “lying game” that they make up takes a deadly turn. It was just ok overall.
6. Salt Slow by Julia Armfield (1 Star): A collection of short stories that were all dark and weird. The writing style felt really beautiful but I couldn’t get into any of the stories themselves.
7. Old Home Love by Andy Meredith (3 Stars): This is definitely a book to borrow, not buy. There isn’t enough content in the book to be super valuable. I love the concept of the book – loving on old homes and renovating them. I wish each house represented in this book showed more. Most houses in this book only had three photographs that were tightly photographed at that (meaning a small angle). If there were more photographs of each house, more insight, etc., I would have loved this.
8. Share Your Stuff. I’ll go First: 10 Questions to Take Your Friendships to the Next Level by Laura Tremaine (4 Stars): Part memoir and part self-help. I felt like some of the chapters were redundant yet I enjoyed them all!
9. A Night Divided by Jennifer A. Nielsen (4 Stars): I read this aloud to my 11-year-old and we both enjoyed it. He said it was 5 stars. I wished that there was a bit more history interwoven in the story about the Berlin Wall. Overall, we were both engaged and liked it.
10. On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness by Andrew Peterson (4 Stars): I read this as a read-aloud with my 11-year-old. He LOVED it and I didn’t. My rating reflects his thoughts on it (I would have given it 3 stars). If you are into fantasy juvenile fiction, this might be for you. It follows siblings as they embark to save themselves from fangs (which are lizard-like creatures trying to hurt them).

What I read in March

1. The Great Pretender: The Undercover Mission That Changed Our Understanding of Madness by Susannah Catalan (4 Stars): I didn’t know the background of asylums and psychiatry in the US until this book. I honestly can’t believe that just about 50 years ago, we were still doing lobotomies and other horrible procedures to “cure” mental illness. The background on all of that was eye opening. The rest of the book about David Rosenhan’s pseudo-patients and whether or not he was “The Great Pretender” was really up and down for me. I enjoyed parts of it but other areas felt disjointed. Some of the research and writing style made parts of the story hard to follow. Overall, I’m glad I read this though.
2. The Red Tent by Anita Diamant (5 Stars): This book drew me in and was beautifully written. It follows Dinah’s life (the daughter of Leah and Jacob, from the Bible) and shows the power of loss, love, grief, anger, jealousy, etc. Honestly, now, I have to go re-read the Bible story to see what was fictionally altered. Anyways. Read this. Just read this.
3. The Winter Soldier by Daniel Mason (3 Stars): I’m a huge fan of historical fiction, yet I haven’t read many from the early 1900s. I really enjoyed the first half of the book. The story followed a young man and his life as a war doctor. Actually, he was still a medical student who was thrust, early, into becoming a practicing doctor. His emotions were on full display and I thought the first half of the book was really good. The second half though, wasn’t nearly as good. He gets relocated to different hospitals and from there, the family relations, love interests, etc, just aren’t as compelling.
4. Surprised by Motherhood: Everything I Never Expected about Being a Mom by Lisa-Jo Baker (1 Star): I tend to like memoirs and motherhood tidbits but this just didn’t speak to me.
5. The Four Winds by Kristin Hannah (4 Stars): Kristin Hannah does it again with this story. It’s based during the time of the dust bowl and follows the story of a young woman named Elsa. She’s lonely and unloved as a child and then lonely and unloved as a married woman until she finds family and connection with her in-laws and children. She migrates west and finds more hardship, impossible choices and purpose. Overall, I didn’t feel like this book was quite as fluid as some of Hannah’s other books but it was still well-written and enjoyable.
6. The Alchemyst : The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel by Michael Scott (3 Stars): I read this as a read-aloud with my 11-year-old. He rated it as 4 stars and I gave it a 2. Here’s the deal… If you know background on Greek mythology and like fantasy, then it might be a good fit for you. He LOVES all things Greek mythology. I, on the other hand, know very little about it and so didn’t get the references to it throughout the book. You can read it without knowing about Greek mythology but it’s not as strong of a read. At the end, the author did go into detail about the characters in the book and how they were either based on real life or Greek mythology. We both found that so interesting.
7. The Viscount Who Loved Me (Bridgertons #2) by Julia Quinn (4 Stars): Netflix got me hooked on this series. I actually think that this one is better than the first book. Honestly, it’s a pretty standard historical fiction, but enjoyable.
8. Every Last One by Anna Quindlen (4 Stars): I had no idea what this book was about when I picked it up and started reading it. The first half of the book follows a mother and her life as the mom of three kids and wife to a doctor. The second half, follows her life as it changes when tragedy strikes her family. Her thoughts and emotions throughout the book definitely resonated with me. If you pick this one up, just know that it’s heavy with grief.

What I read in February

1. On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King (3 Stars): I would say that my rating has more to do with not being the intended audience for this book instead of the quality of the book. For any aspiring authors, I think this book would be highly regarded. For me, it was a little too much detail for the interest I have in writing. Overall though, I enjoyed his story and some of the more technical chapters on writing.
2. Something in the Water by Catherine Steadman (2 Stars): I wanted this to be good and, although it kept my attention, it wasn’t great. But, it is a NYT Bestseller, so what do I know?! I kept waiting on the suspense to build, the plot to deepen, the excitement level to go through the roof and that just didn’t happen. If you want a mediocre thriller to pass time then this might be it but otherwise, I’d pass.
3. Reading People: How Seeing the World through the Lens of Personality Changes Everything by Anne Bogel (4 Stars): If you want a primer on different personality tests and how they can help you better understand those you live and interact with then this is perfect. I felt like this gave me better insight into my family and was an easy read.
4. After Innocence by Brenda Joyce (2 Stars): This was a historical romance set in the early 1900s. If you are interested in NYC and the east coast wealthy society of the early 1900s then you might like this, as it was written about that time period.
5. The (Almost) Zero Waste Guide: 100+ Tips for Reducing Your Waste Without Changing Your Life by Melanie Mannarino (3 Stars): This was a good entry-level book on reducing waste. I had heard most of the tips in here but I think it’s always good to be reminded/convicted of some of the things that we can do to improve our world. After reading this, I think I’m going to start a rain barrel to water my indoor plants!
6. Torn Thread by Anne Isaacs (5 Stars): I read this as a read-aloud with my 11-year-old. It’s based on a true story. The book centers around two sisters who are preteens and their story as they try to survive a work camp during the holocaust. This was definitely written to be age appropriate for younger kids (5-7th grade) but also didn’t shy away from some of the horrors that went on during the war.
7. The Duke and I (Bridgertons #1) by Julia Quinn (3 Stars): I never think movies/shows are better than the books they portray but, in this case, that is true. Netflix knocked this series out of the park and reading the book after watching it, was a bit of a letdown.
8. Chiefs Kingdom: The Official Story of the 2019 Championship Season by Michael MacCambridge (5 Stars): The intro from Andy Reid was so good! The book reads as a play-by-play, which is fun. Definitely a book to cherish. As I was reading it, it was fun to remember what it felt like to be in the stands for most of those games.
9. The Mermaid Chair by Sue Monk Kidd (3 Stars): This was a slow read for me but I stayed curious about the storyline throughout. The idea of a spiritual/romantic love and how they played out was interesting; although, the ending fell flat for me.
10. Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin (2 Stars): I kept hearing about this book (and it’s rated almost five starts on Amazon!), so I decided to pick it up. Honestly, for me, it wasn’t great. I have a healthy viewpoint on saving versus spending and I don’t feel like I’m sacrificing my life just to work. For someone who is unhappy with their life, day-to-day and how work/money plays into that… this might be a good fit.

Overall, I feel like my reading picks for February were so weird. A few of the holds that I had requested at the library all came available at the same time, so I think that’s why I ended up with so many self-help type books.

For next month, I’m ready to pick up some easy-to-read fiction books. Hopefully, I find a few that are great!

What I Read in January

1. She Explores: Stories of Life-Changing Adventures on the Road and in the Wild by Gale Straub (2 Stars): The synopsis of the book is that it is a compilation of beautiful imagery and great personal narratives of women who are exploring out in the wild. For me, it was a bit of a let-down. Personally, I didn’t love the imagery. There is a filter or overlay on each, making them a bit dull. I view a collection of “stories” as more than one small page per story. I would have loved to read each story about each woman’s personal adventure and life focus and really understand/see the story. You just can’t get that done with just one to two pages per person. Ultimately, I didn’t feel connected to the adventures or the individual stories because each was just too short.
2. A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’Engle (2 Stars): I read this with my eleven-year-old and, as an introduction to what a dystopian world looks like, we liked it. But, for this to be considered a “classic” and a “must-read”… I’d totally disagree. Overall, we felt like it was too descriptive in ways that didn’t matter and was just boring. If you are looking to introduce dystopian fiction to your kiddos, you might pick it up but, for us, we could have passed and been fine.
3. Pastrix: The Cranky, Beautiful Faith of a Sinner & Saint by Nadia Bolz-Webter (4 Stars): Nadia was honest, gruff and some of her metaphors were just so spot-on for me. I think she’d highly offend most of the people who are in my life who are conservative Christians. Personally though, I thought her story, her faith, hearing about liturgy, etc. was great!
4. Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout (4 Stars): I kept hearing about this book and it won a Pulitzer Price in 2009. For me, it wasn’t a book that you can read in a day. It’s a book that you really have to marinate on. It centers around the main character, Olive Kitteridge and takes us through her life (over a time span of about forty years or so). What she experiences during that time span are pieces of life that are so true yet often not written about. Her grief, her love, her life… it rang so incredibly true to me. I definitely enjoyed the book, but it’s also sad.
5. The Wives by Tarryn Fisher (3 Stars): I couldn’t relate to the main character at all. During the first half of the book, I was constantly wondering why/how she’d be ok with a polygamist marriage. So, the first half was all about her feelings and what it looked like to see her husband one day per week. The second half, she becomes obsessed with finding out who the other wives are (because she doesn’t know them). From there, the twists and turns are unbelievable and, although I was more intrigued at the end… it still wasn’t great.
6. Learning to Walk in the Dark by Barbara Brown Taylor (5 Stars): As someone who has struggled with the Christian theology that you “just need to have more faith” or “pray harder,” this book was exactly what I needed. From sitting in the dark (physically and spiritually) and learning to accept yourself there; it all rings true. I can’t wait to read more by her.
7. Ember Falls (The Green Ember Series #2) by S.D. Smith (4 Stars): First off, this is a middle grade children’s fiction series that Greyson (who is 11) has been obsessed with. As something we both like, I occasionally will read books that he’s loved so we can talk about them. This (and the following books) are just that. So, here’s my thoughts… This was good. The last 1/4 of the book, I literally couldn’t put down and I had to know what was going on with the rabbit resistance and the two rabbits, Heather and Picket and how the story of the young heir developed.
8. Ember Rising (The Green Ember Series #3) by S.D. Smith (4 Stars): There continues to be a lot of characters to keep up with, but it’s such a well-written series. This book further develops Heather and Picket’s story and makes you want/crave that happy ending but leaves you not sure how the whole series is going to end.
9. Ember’s End (The Green Ember Series #4) by S.D. Smith (4 Stars): For someone who likes a series to end well, I was definitely pleased with the ending. If you like fantasy and are a fan of young adult novels, definitely try this series out.

I’ll continue to update this list of books of 2021 each month as the month ends. If you read something you love, leave me a comment below… I’d love to check it out. And, if you’ve read any of the books above… what did you think?

p.s. If you want to see what I read last year (there were some great ones!), check out my book list for 2020.